This third webminar of learning buddies (SOBER) collaborated with LabSosio FISIP UI related to RC 08 family and gender issues and RC 09 Cultural Transformation and Digital Society in discussing the theme of Sexuality, Morality and Democracy in Indonesia, which was given by speaker Shary Graham Davies who is the Director of Herb Feith Indonesia Engagement Center and Associate Professor of Monash University, Australia. The responders in this discussion were Dr. Irwan Martua Hidayana as Senior Researcher of the Genseks Study Unit as well as Chair of the Department of Anthropology FISIP UI and Dr. Diana Teresa Pakasi as Chair of the Gender and Sexuality Study Unit as well as Chair of the Undergraduate Study Program of the Department of Sociology FISIP UI.